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How to Put Yourself First in a Relationship With a Police Officer

Stop being a police officers’ wife or spouse. For a long I used to think of myself as the wife of an officer. Sure, there is a significant level of honor and respect that I hold with this. There was a point when I stopped seeing myself as that second name in our marital title. When this happened, my entire life shifted up and so did my marriage with my LEO.

Life optimization. Through my own journey with life optimization, I developed a deep understanding of myself and a better connection to life. I began to focus on my body, being, balance, and business.

My Journey

When I started to fuel my body instead of feed my face with whatever I wanted to, I felt better. Then I began to step up my fitness game and I felt empowered and stronger.

My spirituality. Developing a connection with a higher power enabled me to find my being. Through meditation, I developed a new spiritual connection and this promoted self-awareness and a new trust in a higher power that I never had prior. Now, I not only hear that inner voice, but I trust in and follow it.

My LEO, family, and friends. I started to put more effort into my balance, meaning my relationship with my husband, family, and friends. This prompted me to write letters of appreciation to my LEO each day. This points out something that he did recently that I found noteworthy. My family is now more involved in my life and I am building new friendships.

After revamping the business quadrant of my life, I am expanding myself professionally. I have identified my purpose for reaching out to LEO Warriors and starting this company altogether.

I started to put myself first. It’s me, my higher power, and then everything else.

The Shift

The craziest thing started to happen when I tuned into this four dimensional lifestyle. My marriage with my LEO has never been better than it is today. I am having more sex, more meaningful conversations, and a closer connection to him than ever before. He sees me and respects me in a different light. My independence is something that rocks his world. Because of this, I am his Warrior and I love that he loves that.

I wasn’t happy with where I was at before in the areas of body, being, balance, and business. After going through coaching myself, I realized how much I was capable of. New ideas and a new belief system came to me through my restructured daily practices and disciplines.

LEO Warriors? Today, try to stop and think about how special you are and know that you are the backbone to the life with your LEO. Your family, kids, household, and life overall is held up by you. Start to embrace that power; reclaim and reinvent it to be yours.

You. I want you to think about the things that you can start doing today to put yourself first. Sit down now and grab a piece of paper and a pen. Write down the top 5 things that you are willing to do today to find you again. You are beautiful, you are strong, you are LEO Warriors.